7 Reasons Why I Love Homeschool

It's been almost a full year since I have started homeschooling. It's been over a year since I wanted to homeschool. Yes, I still have days where I want to pull my hair out. Ha! But more often then not, I have days that are great.

I recently started thinking about how homeschooling was whenI first started with Aiden and now. I remember mine and Aiden's frustration and my lack of patience. Now, my patience has grown (thank the Lord) and Aiden and I have come into an understanding of each other's role when "school" starts.

These are the 7 reasons why I love homeschool:

• I love my kids, no one will do more right by them than me. 
• I can delve further into a subject because one of my children are interested in it more. I take Aiden to a science center just about every week for him to go to a class and learn all things science with other homeschool kids.
• We can do school work in the car, outside, at the park ...ANYWHERE! That freedom is liberating.
• If we need a break, we TAKE it. 
• No more meaningless school days. Everyday we accomplish something or build upon what we have been working on.
• I am closer to my children. I am soaking up this time with them, because I know it won't last forever. 
• Our family as a unit has grown closer. When my husband is home he gets to be with them all of the time, so his time home is better. Our family is better. 

Today, for instance, Aiden wanted to do his school in his room. As long as he was of good attitude and getting his work done, I was all for it. 

This is Aiden catching me taking a picture of him. Haha. I love that boy. 

So, there you have it. These are my top seven reasons why I love homeschooling my children. They might change. Ask me in another year... Hehe.

Have a great one,
D

Planting a Home Garden Pt. 2

Okay, so after you have tested your soil, figured out what seeds you want to sow, and where you are going to sow them the next part is to dig!

There are nice fancy tillers, just your run o' the mill tillers, and a shovel. Because I'm going the low budget route, my choice was a shovel.

I used an extra spray paint can that I had laying around the house to mark where I would start each row. You can make your rows as wide or as thin as you'd like. One to three feet is a good choice. You would have already figured this stuff out with the garden plan that you drew up. Once you loosen the ground with the shovel, get the grass and roots out. If you leave the roots guess what you'll have... more grass. Ugh! You don't want anything to deprive your precious plants from getting what they need. 

After you have turned up your soil, you'll want to mix in compost. The ideal time to mix in compost is in the fall before spring. That way your soil has a chance to give it's best when springtime comes and you are growing your little seedlings. But... better late than never. I used composted cow manure, but there are plenty of compost options to choose from. 

Once the garden is ready to be planted, you'll want to make sure you plant your seeds or seedlings when you are supposed to. 'Round here in Florida, the last hard frost is in March usually. Most plants will be planted after this time. You can go to this site to find out what your last hard frost date it. A few but not the only exceptions to this will be carrots, spinach, onions, and parsley. These are frost hardy not frost proof. 

Items you will need for planting:

• Garden trowel - to dig the bigger holes
• 18" Ruler - you will need this to determine just how far away to plant each seed/seedling
• Pencil - you will use the eraser part to make small holes for the seeds
• Garden gloves - unless you want your fingernails to look horrid 
• Tray - half sheet baking trays work great, this is for all your small supplies to carry at one time

Now get to planting! Good luck and don't forget to water... ;) By watering, I don't mean drowning them like I did the first time I used a soaker hose. Ugh...

Happy gardening,

D

Planting a Home Garden Pt. 1

Two years ago, my husband made a 4x10 foot raised garden bed. It worked well, but I figured out quickly that I have to listen to the planting instructions. If it says plant 2 feet apart, I better do it! The first year my garden was over crowded which is not good for producing edible yummy things.

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My tomato plants were decimated by leaf-footed bugs! The worst! Not knowing what they were, I didn't realize that they would destroy my tomatoes. I looked at them and thought, Oh they are just hanging out. How weird! The next time I looked at those tomatoes they had small holes in them and the innards were turned to mush! In a violent rage I raced and unleashed Sevin Dust on them. It was a war between the Leaf-Footed Bugs and me. I won...

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Last year I put my tomato plants in containers away from the raised garden that I used the year before. They did much better. No Leaf-Footed Bugs. But here comes the God awful Tomato Hornworms! You have got to be vigilant about sighting them and quickly removing them from your plant. They have one healthy appetite! I read the best way to get rid of them is to just remove them from the plant. I put them into the woods behind my house. Worked for me. 

Besides those pests, I really didn't run into a ton of problems with the small raised garden that I had started. I just realized however, that my unfruitful strawberry plant that I planted last year should produce fruit this year. Did you know it takes a year? Not me. Wish I knew that then. I also have a thornless blackberry bush that I planted two years ago that has not produced a bit of juicy blackberries! I have to look into that. Put it on the list. Ok, so, besides ALL of that I really didn't have any problems (I think I'm having Deja vu). This year however, I am taking a larger and more planned out approach than ever before. BEWARE. 

When you first start planning your garden area. First things first, know where the sun is at all times. You must be a sun watcher for a week. Why a week you might ask? Well, if you're anything like me you will make a note or reminder to yourself to go and take pictures of pre-garden area about 6:30 am. Then you do. Done. Now you need to go at 7:30 and every hour until you know where the sun shines at all times. You don't want to start a garden on a whim and then it not work out because of careless planning. But life gets in the way, so you forget to go at 7:30. You remember again at lunch and set an alarm to remind you at 1:30... You get the point. I had planned on putting the garden by the raised garden bed until I realized that the sun only shines for half of a day there.

Here you can see two sets of pictures that I took of my backyard. I really didn't realize that most of my backyard is shaded until NOW! I used a photo editing app on my phone to arrange the pictures and add the times as well. 

Once you figure out where you are going to plant, now you can figure out what to plant! This is the fun part. I'm sure you probably did this at first, and to be honest I did too. Hehe. Things to think about: What fruits and vegetables are your favorites? What do you use the most while cooking? You don't want to have a bunch of tomato plants if you don't really like tomatoes. You can go to your closest garden center and find seed packets there, but there are also great ones online. Here are a few sites that I have used or looked into. 

www.rareseeds.com 

www.johnnyseeds.com

www.parkseed.com

The next step in planning your home garden would be to test your soil. This is not a must, but if you want the most bang for your buck this is the best decision. 

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My soil didn't really need any changes. I have sandy/loam soil. It's about 7.0 pH. I will add some compost to it after I have dug the rows. Must compost! Must compost! It adds beneficial microbes the soil which is good in starving disease and growing tasty fruits and veggies. 

Here is my planned garden. It's a messy little mess, and if I realized that I would be putting this on my blog I would have made it prettier. (Ha) A ruler, and pencil with eraser are a must. Once you figure out where you will put your garden, you can start drawing it out. You will erase, you may say expletives, you will definitely be glad when it is over. It is a good idea to put all fruits and veggie info down in one place so that you don't have to go back over and over to your seed packets or online to see how far apart you need to plant them. Because let me tell you it matters! 

Here are a few sites that I like for seeds. Or you can just go to your local garden center. 

www.rareseeds.com

www.johnnyseeds.com

www.parkseed.com

Part 2 is the dirty part. Get your shovel, tiller, ground-turner-upper! 

Happy Sunday y'all!

Dannielle

Hello March

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Hello March! 

Wow, it's been a while since I've been here. I have been busy like no other. I have overwhelmed like no other. I am learning to take one task at a time, rather than doing a bunch of things at once. Ugh! I am a work in progress, what can I say? But aren't we all? Right when I think, oh I've got this figured out Murphy's Law comes around to show me I don't (insert angry red devil emoticon).

On another note, spring is right around the corner. I am super stoked! This year I am doing a full garden. It has taken a quite of bit of preparation. I am starting most plants from seeds. It's cheaper and fun as well for the kids to see the progress and mother nature as she works! I will put another blog post about it soon with pictures! 

I know that January 1st is usually the day to begin reflecting and making plan of the new year. I have been out of sorts since November! Or at least it feels that way. The holidays whooped my butt this past year. Aiden's birthday is at the end of January so, January was still busy as crap. A few things I have learned:

• Lists are a must. I am a list-maker. I have a love-hate relationship with lists. To be productive, I must make lists. 
• Better to do one thing AMAZING than a lot of things half way. This may be common sense to some, but I have a fear of not getting things done, so I try to get them all done at once! Not a good idea. Plus, it's not good for my anal-retentive cleaning. 
• It's ok to be a little sleep deprived. If I got all of the sleep I needed each day, I would get nothing done. It is a constant battle. To sleep or not to sleep, that is the question. 

I am however out of physical therapy now! That is a very good thing. I am still working on my knee exercises on a daily basis, because my knee isn't fully recovered just yet. I look at it like motivation. I have got to do these exercises to keep my knee strong. Flab be gone! 

Homeschooling Aiden has become easier. We still have our days when I want to pull out my hair but, mostly the days are sunny (figuratively) and productive. 

Ava's terrible twos is in full force! HELP!!!!! 

Say a little prayer for me ;)

Dannielle